What I am thankful for.

I got this idea from hilderbee To make a list of what I am thankful for.

A family (blood based as well as love based) that loves and cares for me. They support and respect me. I know I can go to them with my problems and get the help and ideas I can use. Knowing that if we fight they will not give up. We can work thru it. That they believe our family is worth keeping.

A mom that is not freaked by the fact that I am poly and a pagan. She has shown me love and support for all my decisions. She is just glad I am happy.

Friends that surround me, whether they are RL or VR. Both are great! I wish them all the best this holiday season.

My 4 kitties.

A house over my head, and a job that pays the bills. Of course winning the lottery would be nice.

The fact that I am starting to get over passed hurts and not letting toxic people affect me as much. Learning to get it out and get over things. I am thankful I am starting to get to the point where what they say/do wont poison my soul.

I am thankful for the Goddess and God that fill me. With their help I know I can do most anything.

More unpacking

I got 3 boxes of candles and knickknacks unpacked today. That only leaves 4 boxes left in the dining room to deal with. I took the 3 boxes down to the basement and unpacked all the stuff onto a bookcase and shelving unit so that I can see all the stuff I have and start to make decisions. I know some of it I want to set aside for yard sales. I dont need or want alot of what is there. I need to wait till I get another shelving unit from my mom before I can unpack all the partylite candle boxes. I still also have to decide about putting stuff on the walls. I feel like I accompished much today. Now I need to head out to get ready for the eating of food. :)

Thanksgiving with Family

I am heading to Ryans Family Steak House to eat with family today. I will be with my mom, her husband, his mom, and my 2 loves. The only problem is that I cant be touchy feely with both of my men. My mom has requested that I not come out to my step-dad's mom, and I am going to respect her wishes. I love my mom and the fact she is really ok with me being poly and pagan. She has been very supportive and loving. I can tell her most anything, and she doesnt get upset or shocked. The least I can do for her is not upset her mother in law. It will be hard, but I can do it. I think this is the first time I will be with a mundane that I care what they find out. And that is only because my mom has asked it of me. The story is that R is our roommate and he has no family in the area. Which is totally true.